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Pastor Identity Pastoral Health

What Happens When You Do Not Know Who You Are Without the Title

Here is a question I want to ask you to sit with before you keep…

Coach MattAugust 3, 2026

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Pastoral Health Spiritual Formation

When Sermon Prep Is the Only Time You Open Your Bible

You know the moment I am describing. It is Sunday afternoon, sermon is done, congregation…

Coach MattJuly 29, 2026

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Burnout & Recovery Pastoral Health Pastors

You Are Not Lazy. You Are Burned Out. And There Is a Difference.

There is a conversation I have had too many times to count. A pastor reaches…

Coach MattJuly 27, 2026

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Ministry Trauma Pastoral Health Pastors

Church Hurt Is Real Even When You Are the Pastor

There is a kind of wound that pastors almost never talk about. Not because it…

Coach MattJuly 25, 2026

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Ministry Sustainability Pastoral Health

So You Want to Quit the Ministry. Before You Do, Read This.

I know where you are right now. You might be sitting in your car in…

Coach MattJuly 23, 2026

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Ministry Health Pastoral Care Pastors

Even Elijah Needed a Meal: The Biblical Case for Pastoral Self-Care

Let's be honest about what happens in 1 Kings 18 before we talk about what…

Coach MattJuly 22, 2026

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Pastor Marriage Pastoral Health

The Hardest Marriage in the Room Is Usually the Pastor’s

There is a particular irony in being the marriage guy. You have done the premarital…

Coach MattJuly 20, 2026

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Ministry Family Pastoral Health

The Pastor’s Wife Is Not Okay — And Everyone Knows It Except the Church

She's in the front row every Sunday. She smiles. She serves. And she's carrying something…

Coach MattJuly 10, 2026

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Pastoral Care Pastors

You Cannot Give What You Do Not Have: Building a Church Where Pastors and People Both Receive Care

Galatians 6:2 says bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. One…

Coach MattJuly 6, 2026

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Emotional Health Ministry Health Pastor Identity Pastoral Health

It’s Either Your Life or the Church: The Moment God Asked Me to Let Go

I remember praying one afternoon, four years into planting a church, genuinely trying to listen…

Coach MattJuly 3, 2026

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